Do You Come to Burdening or to Support?

Sometimes, there are persons come to support and comfort us. Sometimes, there are persons just come to give us hard time. Oh, maybe no, they brought to us not to burden but to train us so we can make improvement or want us to be tough.

Its also for us, we can choose whether to support and comfort or to help others to can do something and to be tough (not to burden). The thing should be thought is about the time.