I once heard that the main healing of a heart wound is the apology from the one who create that wound. I was a bit doubt "is it that easy?". No, yes not that easy. But it kinda true. I got two similar wounds in similar time. One keep saying sorry and express the guilt, one just go away even playing victim. For sure its different. Does it cancel the wound? No, but it helps. Indeed I still trust on one of the powerful healing, TIME. Time heals.
"When your head gets noisy, write it down" turn out it looks like a complaining and crazy blog now. It was blog full of critical thinking, social cause awareness, motivation and other positive energy. But at a point, it flipped 180 degree, there some posts tried to back to those "positive energy only", but not yet succeeded. Keep fall and fall. Anyway, dont you think write down your crazy thoughts here is better than to mainstream social media?
Monday, July 12, 2021
Sunday, July 11, 2021
Ask Your Self What You Want and What You Feel
When you do things based on what you want, if in the future you find out it is a mistake, at least you can say to your self "I got what I want" and it such a healing.
You might need to literally spare time to ask your self what you genuinely feel, what you genuinely want and then what you want to do. It might be fit with other people or with the social but it can also be different.
The fact that the heart is yours, the body is yours, the life is yours, you are the one that will deal with all the consequences.
Believe on your self, your logic and even your feeling. It is not too much to fight for the sake of your self. You can be kind and at the same time you can also be smart.
Wednesday, July 7, 2021
Informed Desicion
I currently trying to make decision but really wondering how it will turns out. I can predict the impact but there a lot of probability. And the impact range of the probability are from -1000000 to 1000000, too big. It might harmful for other people, it might harmful for me, it might be useless. So its about telling something to other person. Should I or shouldnt I. But I got one good point. Whatever how it turns out, at least that person can make informed decision, either as I expect or not. Wait.. the thing is, is it harmful or not.
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