One day, this sentence directly goes to me. "Jangan nyusahin angkatan". In front of my face. That day, me and my friends were in Malang and planned to go to Jatim Park. Im not sure that agenda be planned before or just came up spontaneously, I forget. I just remember that I didnt want to go. Im not interested in such place. Really. So, for me, its worthless, moreover if I count the (expensive) ticket. I planned to go to Agrowisata such apple garden while they enjoy the park, with one of my friend. I thought its not a must to join them. But my others friends didnt let us go. First they said we should make such surat pernyataan (declaration letter) and I agreed, but then they said we should join, they would pay for the ticket. Its not a short time to get the end of the "discussion". But because of the sentence I mentioned above, I said OK. And because my pocket money still enough to pay the ticket, so I paid it. Then, are we failed to see the fresh apple in the garden? No!
At the park, actually I enjoy some spots especially the aquarium. I love beautiful fish. But after that, I went directly to the exit way. Unfortunately, I saw the map and I couldnt find the 'short cut' exit gate. I dont know its really like that or just me who couldnt find. Finally I arrived at the gate then I went to mosque and have some rest. Oh My, Its a long journey, Im ALONE and thats quite tiring. I texted my friend, whether she would join me or not. She wanted. We headed to an apple garden near there by angkot and ojek after lunch. We got surprised in front of the ticket box. Its fifty thousands for the ticket. Hoho.. I asked two ojek driver before at different time. First said its around ten thousands. "We looked at the banner its fifty" but the second said "its around twenty thousands, fifty is too expensive, it cant be". Hmm the banner said the truth. We just paid -_-. And thats my latest money :(. But, it went really funny :).
It happened in the third day of my one-week-planned trip. I said that money for the apple ticket is my latest money, right? Unfortunately its really the latest money before the next monthly scholarship. I back to Bandung without oleh-oleh (gift brought back from a trip) except 2 apples and 2 guavas from the garden, wkwkwkwk. I borrowed my friend money for some necessaries. I dont know its karma or not, but I get one important thing because of this. I totally do not regret doing that, but I, again and again, realize that making decision when we have bad emotion (like angry, offend, or something like that) would just burden our self. As an example, because of the sharp sentence, I paid for something I dont want and just got tired because the trip inside, and then lack of money for the days after. If only I could handle it nicely, maybe its gonna better. The case is same as if some of us stay overnight in different place or using free time to explore the town when having rest time in hotel. We also above 20th years old, right? :3. So, what I want to say through this long (unimportant) story is, make sure we make a decision proactively not reactively (through clear thinking, not encouraged by emotion) and be assertive, where you cant burden others, so do to your self. Ssstt also shut up your mouth to unimportant (provocative) words. Well, its a comedy now :).
Thanks for my partner in crime, sorry for burdening you.
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